Ready to rekindle those loving feeling? Here are 12 super easy ways to show your partner you love them.
It’s easy to be romantic in the beginning stages of your relationship. But once the honeymoon phase is over and things get more comfortable, it’s also easy to let it fade out.
After a while, a relationship often starts feeling mundane, and maybe passionless.
The good news, I promise, it doesn’t have to happen this way!
It’s really not even that hard to show your man a little romance and to let him know you love him.
There are tons of easy and simple things that keep the romance alive relationships.
Here are a few of my favorites:
1. Grab his Hand
This is such a simple way to show your man that you care and that you’re still interested in him.
Just reach over and grab his hand while you’re watching TV or walking down the street.
It’s a small gesture, but it will definitely make him feel loved.
It’s so simple that a lot of people forget to do it after a while. It’s an instant way to add a little romance to your day to day lives.
2. Give Little Compliments
Men love compliments just as much as women do!
So go ahead and tell your man how good he looks in that shirt.
It can also spark the lovin’ mode when done well.
Of course, what you say matters just as much as the way you say it.
For example, telling them “I just love how you washed the dishes last night.” Isn’t going to have as much as an effect as saying “I just love how your chest looks in that shirt.”
3. Shop together
I know, I know. But hear me out.
Shopping together can indeed be romantic and fun. It all just depends on what you’re shopping for.
Shopping for a new ladder isn’t romantic. However, you can have fun “shopping” for a new perfume and enjoying the smells and senses of it all.
Or even shopping for new jewelry and having him help you try it on can turn up the heat.
4. Go on a Mini Road Trip
Whether it’s to the next city over or a couple of hours away, getting out of your normal routine can be just what you need to feel that spark again.
There’s something romantic and freeing and about exploring new areas together.
So pick a place a couple hours away and enjoy the drive and the destination.
5. Have a Date Night
A date night is a great way to reconnect with your partner and remind them how much you love them.
It can be as simple as going out to eat or seeing a movie, or something more elaborate like taking a mini road trip. No matter what you do, make sure it’s something that both of you will enjoy.
So grab some movie tickets, grab his hand and snuggle up.
6. Send Flowers
Sending flowers is a total cliché. But for a good reason!
They are completely impractical, but that’s sorta what makes them so romantic.
What type of flowers does your partner like?
They even have fun “man-ques” made from beef jerky and roasted nuts.
Of course, I believe lots of men would love to receive flowers too.
It’s an easy and simple gesture to show your man some love.
7. Shut Off Your Phones
In today’s day and age, we are so connected to our technology that it can be hard to disconnect.
But one of the easiest ways to show your man some love is to shut off your phone and give him your undivided attention.
Have a conversation, go for a walk, or just cuddle. Whatever you do, make sure you’re present in the moment and not letting anything else interfere.
Your social media app and meaningless text messages will still be there in an hour.
Even having your phone in your hand sends subtle signals that you’re not giving someone 100% of your attention.
So turn it off and put it up and get to talking.
8. Send a Flirty Text
I know, in the last one I just told you to turn you phone off.
But when you’re away from your boyfriend or husband, why not send them a little text?
A flirty text is always a great way to show your man that you’re thinking about him and that you still find him attractive.
You don’t have to be super explicit, just a little flirting will do.
Sending them a sweet text out of the blue is a romantic gesture that’ll let them know you’re thinking about them.
You can even just tell them that. Literally stating “I’m just thinking about you” can brighten their day.
9. Get Him a Small Gift
Just like a text message, a little gift is always kind and appreciated.
Again, depending on the gift, it can also be romantic.
Giving them a cute bumper sticker saying “my other ride is the millennium falcon” can show you know them and support their quirks.
You might not get the same effect from a pack of paper clips. Unless paper clips happen to be their jam.
10. Show How Excited you are to See Him
Whether it’s the first time you see him in a couple days or you just saw him an hour ago, make sure he knows how happy you are to be around him.
Showing genuine excitement will fill your relationship with happiness and love.
You know that feeling you get when someone is happy to see you.
You have the opportunity to give that to your partner every time you see them.
Show your partner how much you care by being excited when they come home.
Think about how a grown up greets a child they haven’t seen lately. Those are the vibes we want to give.
11. Touch Him
And by touch, I mean physical affection.
Showing your partner some affection out of the blue gets across the message that you genuinely like being around them.
It reminds them each day you love them and care about them without even having to say it. (Although it should be stated often as well.)
A hug or kiss at an unexpected moment, can be very romantic.
12. Cook a Meal Together
Pick something to make for dinner and then go to the grocery store for ingredients together.
Then actually cook the meal together.
Cooking together can be both fun and romantic.
And you never know what dessert will bring.
There’s plenty you can do each and every day to show him you love him and rekindle the romance in your relationship.
Romance doesn’t have to be hard! It’s actually the easy and simple things that make such a big impact.
Those kind and simple gestures are the most meaningful.
You don’t have to allow your relationship to fall into the rut zone.
Doing the above actions will keep the love alive and the passion flowing.