Today we are talking about the green signs that show if the man you’re with is “the one” for you.
How do you know if the man you met is “the one” for you?
Could he be the one you’ve been waiting for your whole life?
It can be hard to tell if you’ve found the the man of your dreams of if your simply heading down the road to heartbreak all over again/
Of course, there’s no 100% guarantee when it comes to love and relationships, but there are some signs that you can look for.
After all, feeling butterflies in your stomach isn’t a good prediction. Butterflies have misled many women, and in fact could even be a sign that he’s not the one!
I know it sounds strange, but stay with me on this.
That butterfly feeling, is usually a feeling of infatuation and not love or stability.
Instead, check out a few tried and trues signs to figure out if the man you’re dating could actually be “the one.”
1. Little Drama
The first sign that he could be the one is that he’s low drama.
You don’t want a man who’s going to add to the already craziness of your life.
Instead, you want someone who will be a soothing presence and help you balance out the chaos.
A man who’s low drama will also be more likely to be emotionally stable and less likely to fly off the handle at the slightest provocation.
A healthy relationship should be mostly drama free.
If you are having drama early in the relationship, you’re looking at a big red flag!
Because once the honeymoon stage is over, the relationship only gets more challenging, not less.
2. Good Communication
Another key sign that he could be the one is good communication.
You should be able to talk to him about anything and everything, without feeling like you’re being judged or put down.
He should be able to express his feelings and thoughts openly, without getting defensive or angry.
And you should feel like he’s really listening to you, not just waiting for his turn to speak.
Good communication is so important in a relationship, and it’s something that can always be worked on if it’s not there from the start.
If you want a lasting relationship, it’s important that you have shared values and interests.
This doesn’t mean that you have to like all the same things, but you should at least be able to respect each other’s interests.
For example, if you love going out clubbing and he’s more of a homebody, it’s not the end of the world.
But if he can’t stand clubs and hates dancing, it might be a sign that you’re not as compatible as you thought.
It’s important to have some common ground in a relationship, otherwise it can be hard to find things to bond over.
This includes priorities too. Do you guys share similar values?
If one partner values success, fame and money while the other values modesty, humbleness and giving back, it simply won’t work out.
But if you know he shares similar values to yourself, then you might just have a keeper on your hands!
4. Your Comfortable
When you are with the right person, you should feel a sense of peace and comfort when you are around him.
Feeling relaxed is a big sign that they are a good match for you.
When you’re comfortable, you can truly be yourself and feel good with who you are.
Which is how you should feel in your relationship.
The right one will allow you to feel peace.
5. You Feel Free to Be Yourself
Along with the feeling of peace, the freeing feeling of being yourself is one of the most important things you have.
The right man will let your feel that you can be free to be yourself.
If you are constantly putting on a mask to portray a certain image of yourself for your partner, you won’t feel authentic or happy in your relationship.
I can tell you, pretending to be someone else is exhausting. You can’t keep up the false image of perfection forever and eventually the shoe will drop.
Instead, when you’re with the right person, you’ll feel free being just who you are.
6. Similar Dreams for the Future
This is one is vital! You want a partner you can build a future with.
But you both need a similar vision for your future.
Otherwise someone in the relationship is bound to end up miserable.
Things like what kind of lifestyle you want to live, do you want kids or not, is luxury travel in your dreams?
If your future goals are vastly different from the others, you probably haven’t found your one yet.
7. You can Handle their Worst
Some people’s bad, is pretty bad.
Often it’s found in people with anger issues, and while everyone has their downsides, some peoples worst is unbearable.
If you’ve seen your partners worst, and you don’t mind dealing with it, it’s a good sign.
You can usually chalk it up to them having a bad day and move on.
8. They Accept Your Worst
Just like you need to be able to handle their worst, they should also be able to handle yours.
We all have things about ourselves that we’re not proud of, and it’s important to find someone who can accept you for those things.
The right partner will love you even when you’re at your worst, and they’ll help you through it instead of judging you.
9. He’s Your Best Friend
The man of your dreams, should also be your best friend.
If you’re going to share you life, money and everyday moments with someone, who better than your very best friend.
If you can look at your partner and know he’s that, it’s a good sign he may be the one!
10. When you Know, You Know
When the right one is in your life, honestly you’ll just know.
You’ll have a gut feeling and know with out doubt they’re the right person for you.
And if they are making you question if you’re the one for them, then you’re not!
The right one won’t make you question if he wants to be with you.
So, how do you know if the man you’re with is “the one”?
While there’s no foolproof answer, there are definitely some signs to watch out for.
If your guy ticks off most or all of the items on this list, then he just might be a keeper!